I really don't know what I want or what I'm looking for but hope I or it will find me. I'm not looking for marriage or kids anytime soon That I do know. I would like to meet someone I can take my time with and enjoy. I would like to safe like content know that if I have a problem I can talk to you about it and same for the other person communication is important to me. It is scary for me and can be hard to open my heart cause I have been hurt so many times and LIED to so many times. I've got the its ok for me but not ok for you type thing. I don't know how men and women can date several people at once that sh*t is crazy my brain would not be able to take it too much bullsh*t at once LoL I don't mind being friends either but there will be no hanky panky but we can chill have and have fun. I also don't believe in multi-sex partners either that's crazy in this world today. I am I curvy woman have been told I was too tall at 5'7 got me I have just died my hair red as you can see by my pictures. I have 3 teenage boys 13yr 15yr and 17yr there all mine. There just awesome. I have 2 small dogs and a husky. I own my house. I love movies scary funny mystery sci-fi you name it. I enjoy my music of all kinds as well a lot. I do enjoy getting dressed up from time to time and appreciate when a man treats me as the lady I am even though I can be a big smart ass and can tend to put my foot in my mouth sometimes (true story) LoL but in all I'm not on here for sex or booty call that's just how I fly. Moving to fast like if its to be the end of the world in 3 days is not how I roll any more slow and steady is what I need in my life right now and one person at a time as well. no need to lie to me just be honest I'm a very understanding person. TIP : I am a sucker for old school romance I do love when a man brings flowers on a first date or even picks one for me on his way to me. Its the small things that count with me! Jan 2016